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Devon Price is a social psychologist, writer, and proud autistic advocate who often tackles social behavior with a bold, insightful lens. In the Medium article “Honest Communication Kills Weaponized Incompetence,” Price calls out the sneaky tactic of pretending to be bad at chores to avoid them—arguing for clear, honest communication as a path to more equitable relationships. They combine sharp social commentary with a strong awareness of how neurodivergence and genuine limitations should not be conflated with lazy manipulation.

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Fake Guide: How to Evade Domestic Labour Without Getting Divorced

By A Person Who Magically Forgets How the Washing Machine Works When It’s Convenient

Introduction:

Welcome, weary avoider of mop and duty. You’ve bravely committed to love, but not to scrubbing baseboards. This guide is your sacred text, your beacon through the storm of chore charts and passive-aggressive sighs.

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Chapter 1: The “But I Thought You Liked Doing That” Defense

Convince your partner that folding laundry is their love language. Say things like, “You just do it so beautifully. It’s like origami made of cotton.”

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Chapter 2: The Strategically Incompetent Sabotage

Burn the rice once. Mangle the towels in the dryer. Leave streaks on the mirror. Eventually, you’ll be banned from tasks like a raccoon from a luxury hotel.

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Chapter 3: The Existential Escape Route

Ask deep questions during chores: “But what is dust, really?” Do this enough and you’ll be reassigned to “moral support.”

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Chapter 4: The Calendar Confusion Cloak

“Oh no! I thought we were doing chores tomorrow! That’s why I started a 7-hour game of Civilization VI.”

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Chapter 5: The Weaponized Compliment Strategy

“Wow, when you mop, the floor glows. When I mop, it just… exists. You have a gift.” This works for at least three months.

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Chapter 6: The Sudden Philosophical Allergy

Casually mention you read a study that says over-cleaning erodes the immune system. Declare yourself a domestic minimalist.

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Chapter 7: The Grand Gesture Gambit

Once a year, deep-clean the garage while listening to sad indie music. This resets the “they do nothing” counter like magic.

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Conclusion:

You can’t avoid everything. But with charm, timing, and just enough clumsiness, you too can skate the slippery slope of household negligence without getting served papers.

Disclaimer:

Results may vary. Use only if your partner has a high tolerance for nonsense, a sense of humor, or very low standards.